A multi-passionate woman often feels that she can’t choose just one passion project to focus on.

Doing so would mean that she’s leaving out the things that she loves to do or does not feel whole as a person. There would be guilt building up at the back of her mind for not touching on a course or a project in that week.

As a multi passionate woman myself… I am here to tell you all these reasons are big fat excuses. What you get is a cluttered mind, dissatisfaction, stress and anxiety, a cycle of worry in your mind for not getting to where you desire to be.

I know that your multi-tasking skills are awesome. Two years ago I used to manage 10 projects at one go. Yeap, I thrived in being busy with personal development. What I’m talking about now, is a way to move forward with success and satisfaction.

In the last 2 months, I’ve chosen to work with only one business coach to focus on my business foundations and development. I’ve also stopped signing up for any other paid courses and free 5 day challenges. When I made this one commitment, I was hit by the ‘fear of missing out’ so badly that it churned in my stomach.

Now I’ve come to easily scroll past offers that I do not need right now because I know exactly what I’m choosing to focus on.

By doing so, I had created the time and space in my life to do what my business needed to move forward. I created the mindset in my day job and in my daily life, to only focus on only one thing at a time, and not worry about the rest.

For someone who would experience anxiety in the morning or worry before sleeping, choosing my focus had brought me inner peace. My focus created the space and time for my personal healing journey and my transformation has been the deepest experience thus far.

Choosing to focus on one thing does not mean that you leave behind, ignore, forget about the things that you love doing! That’s like saying you’ll leave parts of who YOU are, aside, in order to succeed or progress.

There’s no separation! (Only you are creating that illusion).
 

I’m asking you to choose one area or project in your life that you’d like to focus on and give yourself a timeframe like 1-2 months. I’m asking for you to bring ALL of who you are along – to be fully present.

My name is Viknesvari, a relationship coach and I help women in committed relationships speak their true thoughts and feelings to their partners without fear of being rejected or judged. I’m here to tell you that choosing one thing can bring you so much of satisfaction and peace.

Be wildly passionate. Be fabulous at it.
Be a multi tasker. And choose your focus, too.

If you’re a multi passionate woman who feels like it’s hard to say ‘no’ to the tempting and often ‘timely’ offers around you, here’s a blog post on knowing what your ‘no’ feels like that you will enjoy.

Lovingly,
 
Viknesvari

Posted On : September 13, 2017 BY Viknesvari | 2 Comments | ADD YOURS